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Don’t Give Up
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I wanted to write about one of my favorite sayings, “If you never try you will never know.”
Its a great saying that can teach us a lot about being willing to step out of our comfort zone.
I’d like to take a look at the other side though.
What happens if you try and fail?
Trying and succeeding is pretty easy to deal with.
Trying and failing is not as easy to deal with.
What do you do?
You spend weeks working on your presentation (marketing). The day comes to present and you get up, go through all your material, and when you are finished you look out over your client expecting to see
an impressed looking face, but….
What you see is just the opposite.
What do you do?
You finally work up the nerve to do the thing – hiking, running, typing, jumping off the high dive,whatever – that you have never been able to bring yourself to do. You get to the point right before its too late to turn back and you hear that little voice start to whisper…
What do you do?
The easy thing to do in all these cases is to just give up and say, “Maybe next time, I will do XYZ…”
That’s the easy thing, but is it the right thing?
Obviously, well, at least I hope its obvious, giving up is not the right thing to do.
Giving up does not move you forward.
Giving up does not teach you anything.
Giving up does not help you in any sort of positive way.
I know this sounds like a bunch of cliched and trite pieces of advice, but stop and think about it
for a minute.
Does giving up ever really accomplish anything?
If you try and fail, do you really learn anything or get any closer to being successful if you give up and never try again?
We all know that the answer to that is no.
A great real estate coach, Mike Ferry, once said “Never give up. Don’t ever give up.”
He also said, which I think is one of the best things to keep in mind when you are struggling to find success, “Don’t give up. Failure and rejection are only the first step to succeeding.”
So what are you going to do?
Hope you enjoyed reading this blog post. Looking forward for your feedback and comments.
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To Your Success,
21 Simple Ways To Be Healthy
Posted by: | Comments21 Simple Ways To Be Healthy
What does “healthy” mean to you? Perhaps it means freedom from illness, or the best possible performance of your body. Or health might be a state of mind, something that fits into the category of “I know it when I see it.” Regardless of your health goals,these tips can help your feel better- starting right now.
Eat:
Eat well, eat often–4-6 small meals a day to optimize your metabolism and keep your body energized and in balance. Don’t deny yourself treats, but make sure that the majority of your food choices are high in nutrients, fiber, “good fats,” and lean protein. Local, in-season, and organic when possible? All the better.
Sleep:
A recent scientific study showed that people who slept fewer than 7 hours each night were three times as likely to catch colds as those who slept 8 hours nightly. So tuck in and get your zzs!
Love:
Falling in love feels great, we all know that. Love triggers the release of all manner of feel-good brain chemicals that bathe our bodies in happiness and well-being… even protection from illness. But that’s not the only reason love—be it romantic or platonic–is a health-giving thing. When you choose to love, you experience what pianist Arthur Rubinstein famously said “Love life, and life will love you back.”
Talk:
Sometimes you feel bad because something’s on your mind, skulking around and sabotaging your well-being, inside and out. Talking to a trusted friend or therapist can help you sort out what’s really going on inside—and map out steps to make it better.
Laugh:
Did you ever think of laughter as an ab-toning exercise? Well, it is! Plus, it’s a blood-oxygenator, endorphin-releaser, and general body relaxer. Ha HA!
Move:
So many of us spend most of our time sitting—on the couch, at our desks, in the car. But the human body was meant to move, stretch, expand, and engage. So take a walk, jump in a pool, skip rope, or just lift your arms toward the sky and see how high you can reach.
Breathe:
Drawing breath is the most fundamental thing we do to stay alive. But it can be so much more than a survival technique. Try taking ten long, mindful breaths, feeling clean oxygen come smoothly into your body, CO2 and toxicity gently flowing out. Don’t you feel better already?
Give:
Studies have shown that volunteering can help alleviate depression and may even contribute to longevity. So help clean up a local park or volunteer at a nursing home, and know that you can feel great about what you’ve given, but also what you’ve received.
Learn:
Take the time to educate yourself about health challenges that you face in your life. Seek out trustworthy resources, hit the library and the Internet, and above all, don’t be afraid to ask your doctor to be your educator.
Change:
The principle of “cross-training” is embraced by athletes who know that changing things up keeps our bodies primed, flexible, and in top form. Try cross-training your life by bringing healthy variety into your diet, fitness, work, and social habits.
Plan:
Is there any more comforting feeling than waking up with a cold and realizing you don’t have to drag yourself to the store for tea, lozenges, and decongestants? Set your home up for healing by planning ahead, keeping supplies fresh… and doctors’ numbers easily accessible.
Drink:
Water, that is. Imbibe 8-12 glasses (8 ounces each, please!) of clear, hydrating fluid to keep your system functioning at its best—and toxins moving toward the exits.
Play:
Remember when you were a kid and your mom called you in to dinner? You were so engrossed in playing, you couldn’t believe it was already dark outside! Play takes many forms, from a romp around the yard with the dog to doing a jigsaw puzzle to (gulp!) attempting a cartwheel. Play today to feel healthy and alive—make the word of the day “fun!”
Create:
Do you want to feel better? Make something. Maybe it’s a knit scarf, maybe it’s a beaded mosaic. Maybe it’s a sandcastle or a container garden. Doing creative activities not only engages your brain on an above-the-everyday plane, it is believed to contribute to better heart health and even longevity.
Walk:
“Me thinks the moment my legs begin to move, my thoughts begin to flow,” said Henry David Thoreau. So put one foot in front of the other and take a walk through a park, in the woods, on the beach, or around the block, and see what flows.
Sing:
Singing requires deep breathing, and deep breathing oxygenates your blood and makes your body happy. So tra-la-la yourself to good health!
Rest:
A rest is not the same as a nap or a night’s sleep, but it is a crucial aspect of good overall health. Schedule “time-out” time each day—make an appointment in your calendar if necessary!—to unplug and vege out with a magazine, a meditation CD, or just the blessed sounds of silence.
Think:
When health challenges present themselves, think before you act. Research your treatment options, talk to trusted professionals and friends, and take a step back to assess a situation in the larger context of your life and health.
Dance:
“Stifling an urge to dance is bad for your health,” said Adabella Radici, “It rusts the spirit and the hips!” So whether you’re in a club, in your bedroom, or even in the bathroom at work, put on an iPod or radio and move, sway, bounce—in other words, dance and feel your body open up.
Cry:
“Let it out,” we whisper to ourselves or loved ones when tears start to flow. And we mean that both emotionally and physically—tears have antiviral and antibacterial properties, as well as health-giving lubricating effect on our eyes.
Connect:
Simple human connection, whether online, over the phone, or even in the doctor’s office waiting room, can be a restorative tonic, not to mention protection against the isolation and anxiety that can come when we struggle with health conditions.
Hope you enjoyed reading this blog post. Leave me your comment and I’ll look forward to connecting with you.
To your health,
Do You Suffer From Split Focus?
Posted by: | CommentsDear Friend,
Lately, it seems that almost everyone is challenged with the same issue.
An issue I have struggled off and on with.
An issue affecting the general population.
Seems more and more kids are affected by this on a daily basis.
What am I talking about?
FOCUS.
The ability to stay on task.
The ability to stay on task until you complete that task.
I can’t even count the number of people I know that are unable to focus.
How can you be successful at anything if you can’t focus?
I sure don’t want my taxicab driver unable to focus. I’d like him to pay attention to the road.
Already this week, I’ve heard of some friends all complained of this same problem.
SPLIT FOCUS.
They are like rabbits with their attention.
Diverted to whatever strikes their fancy.
Diverted to whatever new shiny object comes into view.
This would be wonderful, if you had nothing to accomplish during the day. If all you had to do were eat and play, life would be grand.
But, for most of us, that is not reality.
We have goals to work on. We have obligations around the house.
In my arena, split focus is the number one reason people fail. It is the number one reason they are frustrated, aggravated, stressed out and disappointed in themselves.
Think about that. If you don’t focus on one thing for a stretch of time, you will not succeed.
All the successful people I know have the ability to focus when they need to. They can zero in on a task and, this is most important, exclude everything else.
The only way to improve this skill is to practice it.
Get rid of distractions.
Set a timer for 20, 30, 60 minutes. Whatever it is you think you need.
Focus on nothing but the task at hand. No matter what.
You have to strengthen this skill to succeed.
Build it up like a muscle.
I venture to say that nobody succeeds unless they have the ability to focus. At least nobody I have come across.
I’m glad that you focused on this blog post. Now, what are you going to focus on next?
To Your Abundance,
It’s Not What Happens To You It’s What You Do About It
Posted by: | CommentsWhen something bad happens to us, our first thought usually is “Why me?!”, “What have I ever done to deserve THAT?!”
Sometimes we think that we know the answer to this question, but most of the times we are left absolutely clueless about why bad things happen to us and to good people!
Some say that it could be our bad karma catching up to us. Some believe that we are given difficulties so that we could learn our lessons and become wiser, stronger and, as paradoxically as it may sound, happier than we have ever been. And some claim that life is not fair. Period. And the sooner we accept it, the better.
But then there is a little group of rare people, like W Mitchell, who make you realize that “It is not what happens to you, it is what you do about it” that matters in the end.
And these are not just empty words. This is hard-earned knowledge from a man who survived through the toughest setbacks (including plane crash that had left him paralyzed). And yet he was able to transform these obstacles into exciting new opportunities, becoming a true inspiration for everyone who comes in touch with him.
Watch the video below and get your boost of inspiration for today!
For more on W Mitchell, go to
www.wmitchell.com
And have yourself an awesome day!
With Love,
Pammy Mannings
